Dealing with overbearing people.

When I was twenty years old, I lost my mother to cancer – through my teens, I had witne... Read more

The challenges of being a single woman!

Growing up, I never thought much about getting married – this was not something I dream... Read more

When is it time to leave an abusive relationship?

This week, a young woman was gunned down by her husband in front of her work place – he... Read more

Have some self respect!

I recently went shopping with a friend I had not seen for a while – when we saw each ot... Read more

When disrespect is shrouded in humour!

Previously posted Jan 2021 We all need a bit of humour in our lives to make the serious... Read more

Help! I am in a relationship with someone who is not available!

Paraphrased email from reader. Q- Hello Koya, I have recently started dating a gentlema... Read more

Must every woman carry and bear children to be a mother?

Updated post from October 2020 A Couple of years ago when I wrote about leaving an abus... Read more

Find the strength to let go!

First posted December 2020 On my way to work one cold November morning, as I waited at ... Read more

Growth is uncomfortable – but it is necessary!

A word I am fast accepting will be a constant in my vocabulary is growth! When I was a ... Read more

Let’s talk about husband material, shall we!

Last week, while browsing social media, I came across a post on twitter I could not ign... Read more