Being in love is one of the best feelings in the world. You might have heard this from many of your friends but you will realise the truth in it only when you have someone by your side to cherish the amazing feeling.
Once you have fallen in love, you will realise that little things have bigger meanings. You will know that ‘I love you’ can be replaced by ‘I am yours’ and even ‘I am there’. It is a little change but it definitely takes your relationship to another level.
Spending time with your loved one, doing the cute little things that happy couples do, is the best gift you can give to the person you love. This is a relationship secret that not many of your friends will tell you.
You should explore the little things that couples do, to keep the secret charm in your relationship everlasting and to express your love without requiring words for them.
1 - Going on a couple photo tour, irrespective of the fact that you don’t know photography
Yes! Go out on a photo tour together and click as many pictures as you can - of places, of objects, of each other and of you two. These pictures will initiate conversations, will give you reason to laugh and even come close to each other. The rewards are inestimable.
2 - Performing on a random song together, not caring about your poor singing and dancing skills
Must be sounding hilarious, right? But, until you let yourself free before your love, you won’t be able to see their free avatar. You will shake a leg together, complete each others lyrics and make some noise, completely embracing your share of happiness.
3 - Exchanging a conversation about life over tea, without being afraid that you may sound weird
Your love has to be your partner in everything. Even if you want to commit a crime, you should let your love know about it. Maybe you people debate, having a difference of opinion, but you will never fear sharing your thoughts or ideas.
4 - Sharing the couch with your love while sleep is nearby, happily fitting into the remaining space
Staying in touch, while managing in the small space, brings the secure and protective feeling in your relationship. It is one of those little things that make you comfortable with each other, and prevents your love from going away. Sleep together more often!
5 - Shopping in the local markets together, regardless of the length of the list and the prescribed budget
Watching the bargains at the local market and worrying about your pocket, you will discover the liking, taste and preferences of your love. You might feel tired while going to the shops, holding packets of purchased items, but you won’t find a better way to know your love other than shopping together.
6 - Cooking a meal together whatever the recipe may be, no matter how bad a cook you are
Whether you try to wash the dishes or you try to identify the ingredients kept at the shelf or you chop veggies to help them, the meal cooked together will be the most delicious meal ever cooked in your kitchen. It will spice up your relationship.
7 - Drying each other’s hair after playing in the rain, even when both of you have already caught cold
Leaving yourself carless when it rains and asking your love to follow you to the terrace, will give you colourful play moments. Then, when you come back into the room, you fear that your love might catch cold. Your care shows up here
8 - Taking a work from home routine often, not caring about anything but finishing your work before time
That’s an added advantage you see. Staying back home to finish your work with the help of your love and inviting taunts for the unorganised lifestyle that you have. This sweet gesture is a little thing that develops understanding between you and your love.
9 - Celebrating normal days in cafes, not requiring an occasion to make the day special
Being with your love is an occasion in itself for the happiest couples in the world. This little thing shows that you complete each other’s world, being completely lost in memories while eating the order made by your love.
10 - Stopping by an unknown field on your way back home, unmindful of the secrets that hide in the place
Stepping down the car with your love, in a totally unknown setting, your adventure begins. You go on an exploration, of not just nature but of your love too. You discover fears, anxieties and even affection, which is somewhere hiding at home.
11 - Helping your love in the daily chores, hardly caring if you don’t know the right way to do it
Washing the clothes, curtains and sheets together or organizing the cupboards in the house or even vacuuming the carpet that was spoiled by snacks, could be better than a date. This little thing, little help is what adds respect to your relationship.
12 - Encouraging and enjoying hobbies of your love, even if you have to cut on your personal interests
Appreciating what your love is doing strengthens your relationship. And when it comes to hobby, your interest in it gives them happiness. Take out some time to admire what they love to do and you’ll see the sunshine coming in.
13 - Cheering up your love when they are low, totally ignoring your irritation earned by constant tries to make them smile
Seeing them in tears or depressed is not welcomed by your heart. You try different tricks to make them laugh, to cheer them up and to make them forget their pain. After all, this is what little things in love are all about.
So, with these 13 things on your list, you can be sure to have a vibrant, young and ever romantic relationship.
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