Your hair start moving in the air and suddenly the rain starts. As you move back, in order to find a shelter, you stumble upon a boy and bingo!! You both experience love at first sight.
This aww scene is true only in bollywood movies and not in real life. Experiencing love in real life is a whole different scenario than what is mentioned above.
Bollywood has dramatized love to an unreal extent. However, when you are lovestruck in real life, it completely differs from the reel one. You may not fall in love always with the ‘Mr. Right’ and may even fall in love with a person who doesn’t love you back.
YES! This is a sad reality which bollywood hides from all of us.
Love is indeed a beautiful feeling. It completely changes your perspective of how you view the world that surrounds you. Some people often misunderstood mere likeness with love as there is just a thin line separating the two.
Enjoying the company of someone doesn’t really mean that you are in love with that person. It might simply mean that, that person is a good entertainer. Similarly, making selfless sacrifices for someone is beyond mere likeness.
That is love, you need to understand the difference. Feeding Trends has brought for you the experiences that indicate that you are truly in love with a person. (You can read it when you are alone.)
1. Your eyes open in the morning and close in the night, thinking about someone else.
The person you love is always on your mind. When you wake up in the morning and when you are about to sleep you only think about that person. That means, you first thought at the start of the day and your last thought at the end of night, are only about that person. Haven’t you thought before why is it happening?
2. You start admiring yourself more.
In simple words, you become self obsessed. The mirror turns out to be your best friend, for yu spend hours before the mirror. You are always worried about the positions of you hair (and that hair strand), the color of your dress, matching accessories and perfect body language. Didn’t you notice that you begin seeing yourself through the eyes of someone else?
3. You find out ways to spend time together.
The time you enjoy the most is the time spent with that person. You simply don’t want to be with anyone else and so, you discover many ways to get together. Whether it is your colleges or your office, you start liking these place if ‘he’ is there. Haven’t you experienced the restlessness before the time for the meeting arrives?
4. You become too possessive.
If a person of opposite gender ever comes near that person, even if it is for some work, you start feeling jealous. This jealousy is not because you don’t trust him, but because you don’t want to get replaced by any one else. You are insecure. Didn’t you fight with your possessiveness ever?
5. You safeguard all the things that you got from that person.
No matter how inexpensive or common the gifts are, you always keep them near your heart if that person has given it to you. Even a piece of paper becomes special when received from that person. You will retain the wrapper of that limited edition Silk in your science book. You will keep that pen safely in your drawer. Why are you shying?
6. Rain seems more romantic than before.
No doubt Bollywood has objectified rain as an Agent of Romance, and thus, you also enjoy the rain more than before, after you fall in love. You have a romantic tune playing in your mind when it's raining and you simply can’t control the dance moves of your body. You image the person to be dancing with you. Don’t you?
7. Your mood depends upon what that person feels.
If that person is sad, you will start feeling sadder than the person. If that person is happy, you will be happier than that person. Clearly, the feelings of that person affects your mood. You want to share their sorrows and double their joys, so that the mood remains romantic. Haven’t you laughed when that person shared a school time prank with you?
8. You are comfortable enough around that person.
You are your true self before that person. You wear a fake personality around other people but when you are with that person, you throw that mask off. You become your real self - the weird self, the angry self, the caring self and the emotional self. You don’t hesitate to make bad jokes, dance like a barati, share high fives, or laugh out loud when you are with that person. BTW, how many times have you hit that person in public?
9. You trust that person more than yourself.
Trust comes with love. When you love someone, you eventually start trusting that person. As you grow your love, you trust them more than yourself. You share your secrets, your dreams, your fantasies and even your failures with that person. You know these things are safe with that person. Who would you want to call in the middle of the night if you are stuck up in a problem?
10. You feel strong and safe with that person around.
You feel protected from everything when you have that person with you. You believe that no matter in which problem you are, that person will take you out of it at any cost and every cost. You even feel supported when that person is around you. You now that, that person will always be a part of all the decisions you make. Do you also have this kind of blind trust?
These 10 signs will confirm that you are in love with that person. You have gone beyond liking and admiration. You simply cannot let that person go.
If you can relate with the above points, then you are also lovestruck. And this isn’t a bad thing. The bad thing is hiding your feeling from that person.
It seems difficult to confess your love, but trust me, it is better than hiding your feelings deep inside your heart.
Take a deep breath, gather some courage, and confess your love.
Maybe that person is also relating these 10 points!