What Is the Red Flag You Should Watch Out for in a Relationship

Red flags in relationship, Before we proceed, let us consider what red flags in a relationship mean. Red flags, I call them signals or signs that your partner displays that seem to be a pointer to the end of a relationship. Being in a relationship these days now seems to be some kind of risk due to the fact that relationship now seems to be some kind of business center. Your partner might seem to be tired of you or rather see a better person than you, but instead of saying it to your face, they would rather use these signs which we will looking out for below.

Red flags in relationships are classified into three (3)

Emotional red flag: this part deals with the emotional wellbeing of a person, these red flags pop up in the form of: lack of trust, dishonesty, low esteem, anger management issues etc.

Physical red flag: this part deals with the outward manipulation of someone, these red flag tends to be shown, most especially by men. You might feel bad as a guy at why I said “Men” carries this flag. Well, let me explain. The ego is a foundational attribute of man . Now where the problem comes from is when as a man you let your ego dominate you and let it affect people around you in terms of dominating them and making them feel inferior to you. As a woman, this part also applies to you in terms of being a beautiful lady or a famous one, You let all this get into your head, making everyone feel inferior to you.

Mental red flag: this aspect is very crucial and delicate to handle in terms of any damage to the mental well being of someone which can result in PTSD (Post –Traumatic Stress Disorder). it is a mental issue that’s triggered by terrifying events.

Now coming to the red flags you should watch for in a relationship before you get choked beyond repair or unexpectedly

Ghosting: this tactic is very common this days, This tactic is stress free and easy to use and, after some period of time, it effects takes place making the other person get bored or tired of keeping up with the relationship, so normally, as humans we want to get fresh air and meet new people who will, in turn, will erase the old love and affections and replace it with a new one.

Frequent lying: everybody lies, There is no saint when it comes to the aspect of lies, but when it comes to people we love and care for, the rate of telling a lie to them will be very low and scarce. Your partner is meant to be honest and loyal to you, but when you notice he/she gives excuses or always tries to dodge you to be somewhere else, you should probably leave that kind of relationship.

Physical abuse: this part is mostly common among st guys. Beating up a woman when you are angry isn’t an excuse, Also for the ladies, slapping or tearing your man’s clothes just because you are angry isn’t an excuse. All these are major type 1 level dis respectfulness which might later lead to reduction of self-esteem.

Obsession with social media: you might think this part doesn’t indicate anything, but you might just pay attention to little things because they mostly deliver heavy blows. Social media serves as a platform to meet new people, business and so many other things. It is amongst the top three means people use to cheat these days.  You might say I mostly chat with my partner but the question is: is he the only one in your DM? This question applies to everyone. There will probably be someone who will always try to hit up at you. You might say you have given all to your partner, but trust me, there is always a “special person next in line”.

Lack of communication: communication is always a foundational topic or ground we must always build on. Communication really serves as a ground to express ones feelings and so many other things. Always having the chance to your partner, pouring your mind to him/her, sharing your burden, stress and thoughts, relieving you of any stress hanging around you. All these are what communication does in a relationship, but when it is gone there is no need to continue again.