Two People, Only One Is the Voice of Reason

What's the point of there being two people in a relationship; what's the point in trying to come together if one person make you feel like your opinion doesn't matter.

Where is the line, is there one and if so, where is it drawn; how far? Growing up, I was always told that people in a relationship need to make critical decisions together or at least see what the other person thinks.

But, when one person goes behind the others' back without so much as "I need to talk to you or hey I want to turn you onto an idea, tell me what you think". I mean, relationship logic has gone the way of the last dodo bird and some people wonder why other would rather be alone than deal someone else.

A person who gets out of a relationship or a marriage after so many years, it erodes a person's ability to open themselves up to someone else. People grow so impudent of their partner and think that they have a reason to sit in the dark and cry themselves to sleep.

Sure, people like that eventually get what's coming to them but it goes without saying that if you're in a relationship or married to the person, talk to them about whatever it is.

As we age and grow set in our ways, we forget about people's feelings and we grow ever so inconsiderate then we want to call that person negative names like pussy, sensitive or bitch whenever they get angry about having their feelings trampled.

But as the saying goes, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. So why do people spend so much time trying to respect the person who disrespected them or continue doing things by the book because its the 'right thing to do'.

All the while, wondering, where do you really stand with that person and on whose authority do they adhere? Yours, when they need you for something they can't get or provide on their own, or theirs because the world in which they live has no consequences.

You know, I wrote an article on something similar to this, check it out here - https://medium.com/bouncin-and-behavin-blogs/living-in-a-mind-space-outside-of-reality-a-perspective-e15c3ed7d8f1

I mean, where do we, the logically ignored, the supporters of our idiot spouses and partners, where do we draw the line besides blowing our tops?

I don't know about you guys out there going through this but I'll say this, those people should be lucky to have us because their ignorance and inconsiderate natures wouldn't hold up in someone else's world i.e. if they were with someone else.

I see why some people say "Okay, I admit, I did not marry well". I see even more why more people are not getting married, its always over something serious like this shit right here.

Point of Order: Acknowledge your Partner's Feelings you insensitive assholes!

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