The Essence of Clarity in Relationship

Clarity, this is having a clear “understanding” of what you are doing or into. Most people fail to understand the direction of where their relationship is heading to. This topic is more of like understanding the nature of the relationship you are into, knowing when to fight or watch or rather keep silent or pull back from it. The benefit of clarity in relationship is to help you detect when you are stepping on a landmine or rather in a beautiful paradise.

Deception have been a terrifying weapons used mostly now, the risky part about deception is that is appears innocent and weak whereas it a wolf in sheep’s clothing and it is also considered as a means of manipulation to gain selfish interest. The ability to discern when deception is in action is “clarity” as it serves as a light to your path, shining brightly exposing the secret and traps hidden in darkness.

Love & relationship is tagged as a means of achieving selfish desires or business center. Sometimes we find it so hard to take in when the person we care most about and trust wholly, only for them to turn their back at us and treat us like a piece of thrash.

Now to the main deal The Essence of Clarity of which we will explain the essence and how to put clarity into action.

ESSENCE OF CLARITY

Goal Oriented: In every relationship there are promises, benefit and target to meet and to achieve all this the use of “commitment, will and determination” are needed also it requires focus. It gives you a sense of being responsible and  accountable to your partner and your relationship  So when you notice these 3 factors are lacking or reducing, then you understand where your relationship is headed to.

Energy: as we all know it the ability to do “work”. Now applying this definition into your relationship, it stands as the position you stand in the relationship and the service rendered to push it forward. A relationship where neglecting of services needed of you to keep the fire burning is lost, and then you know where your relationship is headed.

Planning: Clarity serves as a weapon of control in terms of giving you the charge over your relationship. The ability to understand the flaws and weakness of your relationship, giving you an edge on how to proffer a solution to deal with it.

Note: If you can see the problem then the solution is clear

PUTTING CLARITY INTO ACTION

There are 4 basic tools of clarity of which are: Observation, Listening, calculation and prediction= Understanding.

Observation: which is the ability to “watch and learn”. This method gives you an edge in understanding your partner and how he reacts, basically (ACTION)

Listening: Words said out of emotions means a lot. When you give people ears, they tend to talk till they reveal their deepest secret and also it give you an edge at understanding the kind of person they are.

Calculation: After observing and listening to your partner, now you are able collate and know their level of reactions

Prediction: Nothing is so sweet as being able to predict someone action and words or been able to tell the kind of person they are and who they will eventually grow to be, this ability give you an edge on how to deal with them

Finally, if you watch well you will see that these 4 basic tools are pointing at “Understanding” and we have been basically talking about it the whole time. Understanding or clarity takes a lot of process to be able to control the power and authority it commands, but it serves as a security- meaning it prevent or reduce the effect of deception or manipulation, also giving you a higher chance at yourself.