Love vs Your Goal

Love is sweet but the journey becomes bitter and challenging when threat are being posed against it. Most people in relationship wish for “forever” as their basic and priotized banner but they seems to loose the whole thing when challenges comes in. These two options are pretty difficult to choose from because they are part of what makes us humans, but we should know that circumstances and situations may pose themselves as threat, putting us in a tight corner but “Choice” will define our “Fall or Glory”.

Choice is a gift from God but when options are being thrown at us we seems to find ourselves caught between the lines. The topic we are about to discuss have really caused a lot of disruption, conflict and issues which later lead to break ups in relationship with the birth mark of “Malice”. Most people will say their goals or dream over their relationship but have you ever wondered or thought of ever being in a particular relationship that your partner wants to keep you at bay, like he doesn’t want you going to work in a company or stressing yourself but he provides you with the available resources to survive but you want to explore, you to be regard as boss.

E.g: Fifty shades of grey, where Christian grey who was a billionaire after marrying Anna he wanted her to be a full time house wife not going anywhere, always at home but Anna on the other side wanted to explore, she wanted to work for her money, she doesn’t like the call of “A leeching billionaire’s wife”, she wanted to make a name for herself but her husband was posing as a threat to her goal. This led to conflict between them till Christian grey have to bend to his wife will so as to save his marriage.

Goals itself is selfish in nature and very overprotective, that one of the basic fact about it and also when obsession is added to it, it becomes monstrous in nature. It doesn’t care about any other thing until it satisfaction is met or rather ‘Mission Accomplished”. Love on the other hand is caring attentive and considerate in nature but love is also selfish in nature but it level is low compared to that of “Goal” and it is also protective.

Most people don’t know they can keep these two options together without losing any of them and also boosting your goals faster. Listen love is not a bane to your goal nor is it a form of distraction or disruption, but the requirement is “Maturity and understanding”.

I know you might be thinking that you have been told that if you ever want to succeed you have to keep women off and any other form of distractions. Yes!!! It cool am not contradicting that fact but have you ever thought of, why you are being asked to throw off distractions?

The thing is women becomes distractions to you when you keep them as a priority, you have them so much in your hands, you are too engrossed with them, you treat your goal as an option giving them the “crown of an opportunity”, that why women are being tagged as a distraction when it comes to your goal also because you can’t control the wild thoughts in your head when you see them that why you are being asked to avoid them totally.

Advice: Love and goals can coexist together if “Maturity and understanding” are applied but if you know you get distracted easily, you should rule off any form of distraction I mean choose your goal over love

We won’t be going too far in this topic because it optional – meaning we want to know your choice between them.

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