Helicopter Partner

Helicopter partner also known as insecure and overprotective set of people. There is always a reason behind every actions of a person. No reason no action enacted. We might view this sort of people as being toxic or choky but like I said earlier "Reason behind action". Have you ever taken your time to listen and understand the reason behind having a helicopter partner. Yea they will tell you the reason behind their actions but do you know it already becomes a stigma to them, it so hard for them to change that aptitude even while trying, they might find themselves in it unconsciously without realizing it.

Helicopter partner are not bad people they are just:

• Scared of loosing you,

• Scared of losing the smile you put on their face,

• Scared of losing an asset like you,

• Scared of their past repeating itself,

• Scared of going through the same pain,

• Scared of telling the same story.

Lemme give you an insight about this helicopter people if they don't have interest in you. You will notice they try to push you away; they always scare you off and lastly not even giving you face. Most of them are over thinkers their fears is a cage and a curse to them but it also a blessing in disguise because they can detect the tiniest lies in a story.

Lemme give you an illustration on how to tame a helicopter partner: A woman wanted to tame a lion in order in order to cut hair from it mane but basically it so dangerous to approach a lion to cut it hair just like that.

So she made a routine of taking a lamb to the usual spot of a lion that normally comes near her village at first the lion was suspicious of her move but couldn't resist the lamb, so it had to eat it food with one's eyes watching for any form of traps. This continued for a while till there was a sense of familiarity between the lion and the woman and finally she accomplished her mission

Moral of the story: the lion was suspicious of the woman at first. A helicopter partner will always be suspicious of you. He will always be on guard and that a fact you must understand.

The routine continued: The familiarity grew till the lion was accustomed to the tasty continuous food 🍲 presented to it. So finally it let it guard down. A helicopter 🚁 partner will surely let his/her guard down when you put up honesty & sincerity, playing a straight game with them and finally telling them you love them will surely bring them down.

Listen dating a Helicopter partner can seem toxic and. Choky at first but the only way to take that fear in them also giving them a full assurance of putting their heart to rest is by:

Honesty and sincerity: remember that I said earlier that these people are over thinkers. They can see the tiniest lie in any story.

Never play smart with them: play a straight game with them always

Tell them you love them every time: this method softens them easily without them noticing it, even if they eventually notice it they will still submit knowing that you will never pull the trigger on them.