EGO

Ego - It most likely to be compared to as “pride or arrogance” but it actually called the dominant traits of man that creates uniqueness in everything he does.

The older generation mostly channel their egos in their “Policy, Experience, Achievement and Women” all these now plays into our life and daily activities which I will be explaining below, before we go on I will like to give you guys a detailed definition of ego – It define as a person’s sense of self-esteem or self-importance.  

Policy: I call it a principle or rules a man live by that guide his sense of reasoning and lifestyle. Everyone has their own policy which they will hardly or will never want to bend to please anyone at all, for example: I have the rule of “I will never take action against anyone except their mistake is obvious”. This policy controls my emotions in term of anger and reduce the rate of punching someone in the face or hurt someone through my words. Our parents mostly take this words seriously like it is part of the foundation of their life making them tough to pin into easily.

Now let talk about the advantage of policy.

There are so many things going on in our life that if we input policy into it, it will reduce the risk of making mistakes or regrets.

It create more respect take for example: when you give your rules to people and stand by it they respect you for that. Listen!!!! They are not respecting you for creating that rule, they are actually respecting the fact you strongly keep to the rule.

Experience: this is a practical contact with and observation of facts or events. They also say “experience is the best teacher” and “you must serve to be served”. But I call it the fact, information gathered through events or situation. A soldier for example goes through training formally as a recruits later on after some few mission he is being promoted gradually till he arrives at a higher position having people under him. Experience is also a means of differentiation in terms of a fight between a boss and his servant the servant might probably have strong builds or will than his boss but one thing he lacks is called “Experience”, it also a trump card that makes a boss being respected by people under him.

Achievements: ha ha!!!! This is the best part that every being on earth wish, carve and fight for. The mindset of making a strong impact in whatever we are doing brings in a lot of rigorous processing which is only meant for the strong. Achievement are never meant for the weak because they don’t have the will and power to defend it. Experience is also the basic fundamental foundation of it because there is no achievement without experience or what the essence of wearing a crown you know nothing of.

This words is also a clear obvious boundary between the rich and the poor meaning it creates a big differentiation.

Women: this part is also full of fun just that the differentiation of how it is channeled matters a lot, when it comes to proving an ego to a woman, if you take it too harsh or high she will see you as an overprotective jealous weirdo keeping her in your bondage of domination. Mind you women love a man who knows, believe and fight for what they want, they don’t want a sissy as a man.

There are many ways to control a woman without hurting her and making her see you as a bodyguard.