Do Love Distract You From Your Goal?

Let me guess that the usual rhymes and anthem that your parent, elderly ones or people around you tells you but guess what, that piece of advice is pretty cool on the outside and good to follow up but have you ever think of looking out from this perspective of; what if this person add as a fuel to my goal?. You know sticking to this piece of rhymes: love is a distraction is good but you should know it is meant to keep you on track and focus ahead.

Attaining the stage of maturity, gives you the chance of knowing what you want and what you don’t, you also be able to state rules that serves as guide to your life.

Love is seen as a type of thing that deserves and calls for attention, also the goal or objectives you are chasing also requires the same from you but generally you know you can’t move on the course of dividing your attention but you want to keep the both of them. You also know if you sideline love for your goal, yes! you are gonna be a big man and well respected but to your wife you will be a hard cracked man that is not romantic, having no choice but just have to keep up with you because of your money and fame but basically no feeling is held for you.

Sidelining your goal for love your partner gonna hold you up for a while before treating you like a piece of thrash because you are no longer productive, which also affects your family and friends because you treat your goal like a piece of thrash, then your future comes back to treat you like a thrash.

In my own perspective and level of maturity, I don’t see love as a taboo or stumbling block to your path of success but you must have the sense and maturity to determine and choose the right kind of person that aligns with your path of success or better still add as a fuel to it and that brings us to which type of woman/man to date or choose as a life partner.

Man are seen as the breadwinner of the home but due to economic changes and modernization which demands for high resources to get whatever we want, women are now made to work to support the growth of the family apart from keeping the household intact. As a man/woman you must never date a man/woman that pose to be a liability to you. Remember this issue is not all about being with someone that only support you financially but they do in other aspect like supporting your goals by giving your ideas and information on how to push it forward and upholding the whole household.

The idea of sidelining love for your goals will be mostly accepted by everybody but the best advice to you is to put in maturity as the first and basic condition for any relationship, finally someone that support the whole idea of your goal/objectives.