Bad Habits Do Not Make People Second-Rate

As a fighter for my justice and defending humans that are not sheep, I stand up once again that time for the people with bad habits. We all know the people that are thieves, alcoholics or drug dependent, mafia members, prisoners, or even killers. Usually, humans play dead or are blinded when they hear about the grey side of life in the towns, clubs, human traffic, etc.

Since society is old-fashioned in general, it claims people out of the ordinary course of life in its view. I stand up, and I say without a doubt that people living on the dark side of life is no less perfect than those who spend their life on the bright side of daily life.

That may sound crazy, but I am a devotee of the good side of all people. I know that someone who decides to stay sober, live an ordinary life after prison, or in a mafia situation is also a human that needs respect. I always look behind the reasons for the human attitude. I dig so deep that I can see the most unbelievable proof that a person is good despite the things done in his past.

Everything has a reason, and when it comes to humans, I stick to that they make mistakes, learn from them and become better persons.

I say that because I have been close to people with drug and alcohol dependence. I also have worked with people from the mafia and with suicidal thoughts. I was a psychological consultant for group therapy a few years ago, and I know some things. Some of my closest-to-heart people were also dependent on their bad habits.

That doesn’t make them less human. If a chance is given for better life, job, or relationship, the people involved in the dark side of life may go to great lengths, proving they deserve the best too. The criminal minds are sharper and more schematic or organized than regular people’s brains which are learned from the book and then practiced. The criminals only act and practice. They have their reasons that indeed may be more human than the known.

Some people steal or sell drugs to feed their families. It is not appropriate in the eyes of society, but still, if people understand the reasons, they see there is a logical explanation. I am not saying all should do bad things, but they are part of the personality.

If people are sincere to themselves, they will see that they also have bad habits, but probably not enough motivation to do second-rate deeds, but the truth I and everyone know is that all need the motivation to do something, is it not?

Let’s say that the reasons for a concrete behavior started from a young age. Many persons I have met told me that they were beaten at home or verbally abused, transferring from good schoolers to the worst because of their grades.

Is it that education or lack of elementary respect toward a decent human being?

In my opinion, children need to be praised for almost everything they do. Of course, I do not support inappropriate behavior all the time, but there should always be balance.

The equilibrium can be built very well with different methods. Relationships between parents, and children, and their actions may stabilize with talks or psychological consultation if needed.

That would make bad habits less showing. Most people do whatever they do to be seen by their closest people, thinking that will bring the attention of a concrete person toward themselves. That may be a father, mother, sibling, or lover’s figure. The problem can be solved before joining criminal life with a simple conversation.

The main reason for bad habits usually is the lack of love at home from parents or siblings. They may put too many responsibilities on the children, robbing them of their only one childhood.

To escape the feeling of dissatisfaction, many humans take a different way to distract themselves from the reality they do not like. These ways may be drugs, alcohol, or other activity that is claimed as bad. It is easy to judge people and their actions without thinking about their situation. It is like showing your middle finger to attract attention from the police or other people to be noticed. That usually works for a short period, but not for a long-term situation.

The same can be said for going deep into the bad habits, leading to being in places that challenge, or creating illusions you are on the right path. All this is seen as second-rate by society.

After all, that is not the truth about humanity because everyone has their bad habits, but only a few change them or use them to move forward.

As a believer in second chances, I think everyone needs them. That would make people richer and more forgiving to themselves.

When a prisoner goes out, a drug dealer stops the sales, or an alcoholic becomes sober, trust me, that means they went to hell and back. They have been wherever no one of the regular people who had good school education, stable financial situation, and weird, but somehow acceptable, family situations, have been.

Those humans who are claimed as second-rate people have the most qualities for success. They learned the hard way to be humanitarian, empaths, and have the will, and power, to change the known world for the best.

These second-rate people with bad habits are far closer to saints because they were once devils. Believe it or not, they can manage better and are more intelligent than lethargic, bored people that think they have the best work in the best company and sit on their buts without changing anything for themselves and others.

The employees have not met any hurdles in their lives, knowing nothing about reality and being human.

The point of my current blog post is that every human counts.

Equality is the bridge that connects hearts, bringing meaningful leadership and better connections between personalities. I do not say abuse in any form needs to be respected, but just to be thought why it happened twice.