Have you ever faced your partner getting you a gift you have wanted for so long?
If this thing happens to you, then you are lucky.
If I ask you if would you rather questions for your crush, you would say yes. Because you wanted to start a conversation with them. And to do this you need to know them well. But in a relationship, do you know your partner from the inside?
For a healthy relationship, it is important to know your partner. Not only from the outside but inside also.
Have you ever asked your partner some deep questions to know better about them?
If you care, go through these questions and try in your relationship.
Let's start the Quiz.
Warm-Up Questions To Get Ready.
These questions are very basic. However, everyone should know the answers.
What is his/her favorite movie?
What is their favorite book?
What do they like to cook?
What is their favorite color?
Where did you meet for the first time?
What is the color of their eyes?
What is the color of their hair?
How does your partner want to spend the weekend?
What’s your partner's favorite destination spot?
Do you know your partner’s close relatives' names?
Questions About The Past.
Why your partner’s past is important to know sometimes?
A person’s childhood is the mirror of their personality and emotions. There are fears, traumas, and good memories. To a person better, it is important to understand their past.
How is the relationship of your partner with their parents?
How does the relationship of your partner with their sibling?
Is your partner still in touch with any childhood friends?
How was their high school experience?
How was their college experience?
Were their parents supportive of their careers in childhood?
How do they feel about their exes?
Are there any past experiences of mental health issues?
What is their biggest regret?
What are their fears in life?
What was their aim in life? Have they succeeded?
What are those things that they wanted but couldn’t do?
What was their favorite tour?
What did they miss to do?
Is there any “someone that got away”?
Questions About The Future.
Right now, you both are happy with each other. But who knows what will happen after five or ten years?
Maybe you both are on different tracks. But no one knows about the fact.
Have you talked about your future with your partner?
Yes or no, ask these questions, and before planning your future, talk.
What is your partner's aim in life?
From each other's perspective, how do they see themselves in the future?
Will they ever relocate for your career?
When will they want to marry in the future?
What are their thoughts on having kids?
Is your partner happy with their work?
What is your partner’s biggest fear in the future?
What is the plan of your partner with you in the upcoming years?
What do they expect from you in the upcoming five or ten years?
After ten years, how will your partner see you?
Questions About Values.
You should know your partner’s values and perspective. To be in a relationship for so long needs compatibility.
If you are thinking of being in this relationship for the rest of your life. Then you should align your values with your partner’s values.
You don't have to change yourself to fit into someone’s ideas. But you need to respect that.
What is your partner’s political ideology?
Family, career, you- ask them about the importance.
How does your partner see physical activities?
How do they love to spend alone?
Traveling or chilling in the house. What do they prefer?
Who are the most important people in their life?
How do they spend their money?
How do they see religion?
What are the most important things that they love and hate?
What is their thought on open relationships?
Questions About Sex.
If your sexual life is not healthy, then sorry, nothing will work out.
What is good sex look like?
How much intercourse should last long?
What do they feel about watching porn?
What is their favorite sex position?
What is the best place to have sex?
Do they love using sex toys?
How much do they love to adventure?
What is their fantasy?
Is your partner into kinky stuff or not?
And most importantly, fast and wild or slow and romantic.
There Are Other Things You Should Know.
These things will tell you about the personality and, as a human, how they are.
Are they an introvert or extrovert?
Are they expressive or not?
Are they romantic or not?
Are they love to talk, or are they shy?
What makes them angry?
How do they define love?
Wait for the right moment and discuss these above things to understand each other better for a healthy relationship.
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Scarlett Watson, a freelance writer. He is loving every bit of it. His niches are marketing, lifestyle, wellness, Relationship, travel, and entertainment. Apart from writing, Chris loves to travel, binge-watch, research conspiracy theories, Instagram and overthink. Now he is a valuable contributor of 7 best things Lawyer Snote, I Dream Agency, Get Me Seen, The Global Magazine, Top Preference, Big Jar News, Small Business Journals.