Hello all.
I agree we all commit mistakes and sometimes blunders.
And we even take oath or vows NOT TO repeat it, but we keep on repeating mistakes of similar nature. Do you know why?
One main cause is we never forgive ourselves truly from inside.
Let me give you an example- will you live happily with a person who abuses you or has not forgiven you for even one month? A big NO! Right?
Similarly if you do not forgive yourself , it is just like living with a person who abuses you and never forgives you for rest of your life.
See we can escape from persons who abuse us and are our critiques ONLY, but we cannot escape from ourselves, we live with ourselves for the time we live! And MOST IMPORTANTLY FORGIVING OURSELVES is important, as only after forgiving ourselves our mind will remain stable and we will not COMMIT same or similar mistake in future.
Do not sentence yourself to jail term for rest of your life.