Yes!!! Relationship are meant to last forever. You might say what of building a relationship with the wrong person, is that relationship still meant to last forever? No!!! Trust me it never gonna last because it an eternal pain, you can’t afford the chance of someone making your life a living hell. You will know the wrong person when you try to give them all but they consider all your effort as nothing, you should probably treat them as a phase or experience you must always learn from.
Some people are meant to be a chapter you must go through but sometimes we make the mistake of pushing them away. Yea, you do it because you feel they are not the right person for you but nobody is meant to be useless or considering them as the wrong person just learn to look at the good part and blissful moments you had with that person and always appreciate them for that.
The word “relationship” really determines the type of being any man or woman can be, it makes up our memory, emotion and behavior. Relationship is meant to be beneficial to the both parties involved in it. It involves the code of “Give and take, Watch my back while I watch yours”. Now to the main talk. Are relationship meant to last forever? this question is based on the people involved in it, if they are really determined to keep it real and forever which means ignoring of all flaws and continual correction plus willingness to learn and take to it. There are many factor that determines if a relationship is gonna last or not of which I will be explaining below.
Trust: The basic foundation of relationships. Trusting someone or giving them your heart of fully trusting them is more like giving a gun filled up with live bullet pointing to your head and forever believing he or she is never going to pull the trigger. It also part of the essential factor “Unity” a full grown nurtured trust between two or more people brings in unity, which acts like a bond that keeps them together. Trusting people and believing they are not gonna hurt you is a lot of risk but human have their decision and choice to make. They might keep hurting you but the main thing is they know deep down there they are hurting you, remember people deserve a second but with a checkmate never let your guard down.
Determination: This is the case of tolerance and continual persistence till the moment of achievement. This are the question that determines the choice of keeping up with a relationship.
Question: Am I okay with this relationship?
Answer: Yes,
Question: Do I really want to keep up with it?
Answer: yes
Question: Do I feel safe with this person?
Answer: yes
Question: Do I want to keep this relationship going forever
Answer: yes!!! I wanna keep this relationship forever, am never letting this person go.
This is also an efficient key or factor that determines if a relationship is gonna last forever. You have to know and understand the type of person you are in a relationship with. I mean their flaws, weakness, and shortcoming. Understanding all this factors in someone and putting up the touch of maturity, understanding and tolerance.
People are not created to be perfect sometimes they get mood swings or get affected by their environment or feelings, showing them the fact you are always there for them when they feel down plus continual correction. Remember people don’t like the truth but when they understand the fact you will always be honest with them, they will always feel safe with you and sharing their secret with you.
We all want to keep our loved ones around us but we should remember not everyone are meant to stay.