Anxiety can be a very debilitating emotion. We may get dizzy from ongoing anxiety about our everyday tasks, as well as from nausea and unease. Certain kinds of anxiousness, nevertheless, are beneficial in a partnership. "Anxiety may be utilized to improve our relationships since it is a natural emotional reaction to situations that we dread or are beyond our control, such as losing a relationship, engaging in destructive behaviors, or harming those we love. However, like with everything else, when anxiety gets out of control, it may ruin your relationships. Therapist Divya Robin noted, "If we can control anxiety and identify its causes, we can act on our values instead of letting it rule us."
Anxiety about how our activities affect other people:
Being aware of how even seemingly insignificant acts can have an effect on other people is a good perspective, even if we shouldn't be too agitated to the point where we analyze every move we take.
Talking about nervous thoughts and showing vulnerability:
Communication about our sentiments and the exchange of emotions should be allowed in a healthy partnership. To increase closeness and connection, it's critical to be vulnerable and express nervous thoughts with the other person.
Inspiration for personal development:
In a partnership, we should always want to improve and become better versions of ourselves, which is beneficial to both of us. It is possible to increase relationship safety by presenting as a better person.
Worries regarding the impact of our history on our current relationship:
Some of us are burdened by the trauma we experienced as children and later catastrophic events. It's crucial to understand how our past has impacted us and how to deal with it so that it doesn't negatively impact our relationships.
Fear of a guaranteed relationship:
It's critical that we are clear about our current relationship status and our next steps.
Awareness of the potential harm that our actions may do to others:
Being aware of the potential harm that our actions may cause to others will help us to better understand the positive behavioral changes that we need to make.