Agreement in Relationship

Nothing in the world is permanent because we are the cause of the “Change” it brings us. The whole thing God created is set automatically without changes. “ The sun will never rise in the night”. The earth was without a mansion built on it but someone had the idea of building a house, family, utilize resources for their uses.

We should understand the fact that any change in our environment, people or anything thrown at us is by the cause of our own hands.

Romantic relationships are mutual understanding and acceptance of being in it, it is all based on agreement to love each other beyond the limit of being friends. Remember “Agreement”. You both agree to be in this shit together, now it is left for the both of you if you want to keep it permanent or temporary. Being in a relationship with someone, you should have a better understanding of the person you are in love with.

Does this person want to keep me around for a while or he wants to make me his forever. Many people have been hurt based on they have been giving fake agreement in their relationships but they say actions speak louder than voice, we should understand that when it comes to dealing with people we should note their actions because it really says a lot about them than their words. That where being a psychologist comes in but don’t get me wrong just because you wanna understand someone doesn’t require you to have a degree in psychology. let me give you a general insight on psychology is all about: psychology is all about observation of human behavior and how they react to stimuli.

when you decide to understand you partner you must always be very attentive in watching their actions.

Agreement in romantic relationship is always between two people only meaning no third party be it friend, family or anyone, because when you allow these people into your relationship basically they don’t understand the whole agreement between you and your partner. So they bring up their own view on how you deal with your partner at the same time urging to follow what they say. ideas and information can be taken from outside but all the same make sure the advice, idea or information anyone is giving you must never put your partner in the position of feeling “Insecured”. Insecurity borne fear, then fear changes to threat then threat changes to envy, jealousy or worse. In all when taking advice outside always place your partners as a priority.

Love is a general language and currency everyone have the will and choice to use but you must know that love doesn't require the whole idea of “charity”. in the olden days it was a valued currency but now it a game which means you play it with you brain and not your heart.